Life with ten month old twins and a now three year old is hectic, to say the least. I am sure that you would expect me to say nothing different. It is absolutely enjoyable. However, it doesn't stop.
Lately, I find that I am more able to take time aside to do things for me (haha.... Read as, I help out others as my escape). I've been getting out of the house helping a friend out with her business, volunteering a few times a month, and getting to church events. All of these things get me out and socializing with adults, which can definitely help to keep me sane!
I find that, as my social times and outings on the calendar are filling up quickly (I actually should probably take a picture of my calendar and post it on here, because it is literally a mess), I sometimes struggle to find a balance.... as always, a good serving of sleep deprivation helps with that too... :)
So, I have been working on trying to balance household tasks, children, and ME!! Yes, I've finally made it into the equation! I find that, even though there is often a lot to do or a teething babe in tow or a three year old with an attitude, if I don't take time to 'get away' mentally from the four walls of my house, then I am much more exhausted than I need to be. Going for a walk around the block or having a long phone conversation is a great escape, but having an HOUR or two away (or even more at this stage) replenishes the soul!
As a mom, it is so easy to let ourselves fall to the side and to take care of everyone but ourselves. I am finally starting to shift priorities. People have said this for a long time to me, but, now, I feel a lot more confident in the 'shift' taking place.
Onward and upward!!! The toys can be put away later! There are still plenty of clean dishes in the cupboards! The kids won't stay small forever. Time to take time to myself and refresh so that I can keep enjoying them at this stage. :) Loving it!
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